About Pax Aroha

The Ethos

Pax Aroha — Peace and Love.
Both my name, and the intention I carry for all who arrive here.

This is not a place for spiritual fluff or surface words. It is a space for remembering. I don’t offer quick fixes or empty inspiration. I offer the gnosis — Truth with a capital T — distilled from lived experience, ancient wisdom, and the daily inside work.

Here you’ll find reflections, practices, and teachings that help you face shadow, reclaim your light, and live from the truth of who you are.

I’ve walked this path myself, through fire and grace — and I share what has actually worked.

My Story

The Early Path

Like most of us, my journey began in the ordinary and everyday, but with an inner knowing that something deeper was calling. It’s like an ache, a longing, that all human beings feel at some point in their lives. My life as it is now wasn’t always so picture perfect, because, like most people, I knew a lot about what I didn’t want, but didn’t have the same level of clarity on what I did want. Also, like most people, I have endured deep hardship, lived through trauma, turmoil, pain and suffering. I have experienced being taken advantage of and been cheated. I have been robbed, scammed and looked devastating loss in the face more than once. I have felt lonely, unloved, undervalued and unseen.

And yet, I’ve also fully claimed for myself the blissful opposite of all those things.

I tell you this so you know I am no more special than you. You are so special. You have something special inside of you and it is that hidden gem that will help you design and step into your dream life, just as I did.

Looking back over my life, I didn’t imagine that this was where I would end up, or that this was the path I would journey to get here. From a relatively tender age, I found myself sitting face to face with people from all walks of life, of all ages, of many different races, creeds and ethnicities in a listening posture. Oftentimes, these people would be baring their innermost thoughts, their heart and soul and their deepest shadows or lights to me while looking to me for answers. I didn’t know why this happened so often or why they chose me; I didn’t think I had anything valuable to offer them in their time of need. So, most of the time I just listened.

Sometimes though, I’d receive a thought, a feeling or an intimation of what might help them, whether it be a word of advice, a question that could lead them down a path of self-enquiry, or a gift to serve as an anchor that they were worthy of something greater, and the response that I would get time and again was one of connection and gratitude. So I allowed myself to be open to doing more of whatever that was.

The Lessons

As I matured, I had my own shadows to face and my own obstacles to overcome. Like most people, the rite of passage that dresses up as being broke in one’s youth, experiencing the state of “not enoughness” in relationships, and the inner tumult that screams inadequacy, weakness and fear are all things I faced in the darkness of inner solitude while on the outside showing a smile on my face as I set out to consciously craft a life that felt purposeful and driven by connection.

I didn’t tell people close to me about being 6 figures in personal debt in my twenties or experiencing patterns in my relationships that were the same broken record on repeat. Nor did I have any boundaries when others asked anything of me until one day I was hospitalised before my time, having exhausted all my energy saying ‘yes’ to others more often than to myself.

The goodies aren’t in the gloss — they’re in the fire.

Over time, I learned that we are not defined by our successes or our failures. We are not one-sided beings, so why pretend to be? It’s the dance between shadow and light that shapes us — not the mask of perfection.

I knew to my bones that the Truth was oneness and love, and that the dissolution of the illusions of limitation, separation and lack would bring my waking life into resonance with my soul’s connection to God/Source/Divine Consciousness, my body and mind’s innate wisdom, and my life’s purpose.

So I began to intend change, progress, delight and deeper awakening on the daily. I basked in my imagination, visualising and talking about in safe spaces the version of me that was different. Pax 2.0 had impact, was gloriously contented, and living a life of fulfilment.

So, What Next?

I decided to no longer work for people who found it easier to trample on me because my light made them feel intimidated, and instead went to work for myself. That was the first step towards everything working out for me. I valued my gifts and I knew that I could best be of service to others by stepping into my power and being myself, wholly.

I first qualified as a personal trainer and nutrition coach, which allowed me to work on my own terms in something that helped others to improve their physical and mental health. As time went on though, it became clear that my clients were coming to me less often to sweat and throw weights around and more often to simply talk about what was pressing heavily on their hearts and minds.

Yet again, the old soul empath in me was being invited out to play.

I shifted my focus to the field of life coaching and personal transformation, this time undertaking several years of intensive study all over the world while also managing sessions with my clients. This was a much bigger leap for me at the time because there were occasions where I felt a little out of my depth, feeling somewhat of an imposter because I wasn’t a clinician. Yet, time and again I would have CEOs of companies coming to me for coaching while also enrolling their employees into my programmes to support them through major life changes or deep states of anxiety.

Men and women, even married couples, who were 20-50 years my senior were trusting me with their deepest secrets and asking for guidance on how to improve their lives and although at times it felt intimidating to say ‘yes’ to clients such as these, I did so simply because they had asked.

Life continued, I grew, I faltered, I experienced newer depths of understanding and awareness, of pain, grief, detachment and loss, as well as of love, repair, and creation. It’s such a privilege to be alive, isn’t it?!

The Work Today

My work is grounded in love, honesty, and compassion. It’s playful when it needs to be, direct when truth demands it, and always held in presence. I’m here to remind you that you are it all — the shadow and the light.

And because stories are best remembered in glimpses as well as arcs, here are a few snapshots of what has shaped me.

Instant manifestation is real

It was unbeknownst to my conscious mind at first, but because I was undergoing such hugely visceral shifts in my life as a result of my intensive and deeply experiential study in the fields of personal development, the body-mind complex and soul’s journey, my stepping into this mentorship role was in fact intensifying the personal and soul-level expansion I was going through.

It felt as though I was growing at such a rapid rate that I could barely recognise myself sometimes. Little by little, day by day, I began to alchemise from the inside out and it was always a truly magical experience to witness the collapsing of time in the moment as I drew things I wanted from my future into my present reality in what felt like a heartbeat in time.

My abilities to have clear sense and vision and to finally know with lucidity that which I truly wanted in my life - whether big or small - made placing my order at the cosmic buffet simple and effective.

I began to project, expect and collect whatever thing of value I desired.

It was like a dream playing out in waking life - I could manifest money out of thin air like never before. Want a thousand dollars in your bank account by the end of the day? No problem. Need twenty thousand this month? Easy! In fact, here’s fifty thousand. Increased money flow was just one result of tapping into the “Elysian order book”. Time and again I was able to deconstruct and unpack a problem I was facing in real time and, using Hermetic principles to transmute energy and awareness from one pole to another, I’d see it all before me and have it solved by the time I’d finished thinking the thought.

I was no longer stuck - it was all happening - the everything, everywhere, all at once sort of happening. My heightened levels of awareness and perceptiveness were like a drug unleashed in my consciousness. I was living in the fullness of all that I am and my whole perspective of the world changed.

Your latent powers of materialising the things you want are readily available to you right now. It is your duty to exercise these powers so that humanity may collectively advance boldly into the world to which our hearts are drawn.

We can almost taste it. Mastering the conscious mind is one thing, but mastering the subconscious is manifold and has an impact on the soul’s journey and the fabric of our universal collective consciousness that one cannot imagine.

Love…oh, to harness its secrets!

I began to see, feel and perceive the truth of things in a deeper and more comprehensive way. An example of which is when I went from releasing a terribly damaging relationship with utter compassion and love to attracting - in a mere three months - the moment where I was ready to manifest the love of my life overnight.

That happened.

We were engaged within a few days and married that same year. That beautiful, King of a Man was peeled off of the pages of my journal so exactly that it was as if we’d been there before. He is my best friend in the whole world and my most ardent supporter. I believe we all have a love like that just waiting around the corner, and one of my many jobs is to help you discover it.

Unveiling these powers that are concealed deep within us all, we can design and create anything we want. Every single thing that we want. You will come to learn this power and use it to literally transform the fabric of your reality before your very eyes.

Healing

I have healed my own physical, emotional and mental ills and traumas - some within very short spaces of time, some over months and even years of ever deepening layers of healing - through an alchemy of the spiritual and physical senses that transcends our conditioned logic of how science works. I have a myriad of personal stories that reveal the effectiveness and speed with which this universal power functions.

You can heal your life in ways you have not allowed yourself to imagine and you need no other tools than those you already have inside of you.

A big part of our journey together is mastering the treasure trove of remedies that lie within, so that you may draw upon this inherent wisdom whenever required, as well as heal old wounds that leave you stuck.

Money, wealth, riches, abundance, overflow and living an abundant lifestyle

It took me six years to generate a net worth of what some would call my first million, and it wasn’t done consciously or with any focused intention. When I realised I was close to this major milestone I decided to hone my focus to fully intend the next million.

Exactly one year later I was sitting on another $1.2 million and this time, it was fully liquid.

Fast forward to today, I am living a lifestyle where my family and I have complete and utter freedom of choice: travelling the world together (and always on a flight with a lie-flat bed!); spending every day with the people we love most; sharing delicious meals, stunning sunsets and each precious moment of our child’s growth and development together; bestowing our time, skills and money upon family, friends and our wider community as a way to give back and keep the channels of abundance open and flowing in new, exciting and ever increasing ways; investing in exciting projects that make our hearts sing; and creating adventures and memories through our experiences together. This is what true abundance looks and feels like to us every single day.

Your greatest levels of wealth are being held back from you and it’s time to open the floodgates! True abundance is available to you - and it includes an unceasing flow of money, freedom, adventure and all the blessings that this life has to offer you.

This is the work I continue every day — and it’s the work I now share with you here.

My soul’s purpose and the best service I can give to humanity is this most intimate offering: a year of my time, one on one, to show you how to unpack, unveil, nourish, alchemise and materialise the things you desire most in this life so that you may become a true artist who creates and lives his or her own masterpiece in the fullest.

For everything else, I offer my sacred broadcasts, free downloads and YouTube videos to guide, invite and remind you of who you truly are.