Why Manifesting Big Is Easier Than You Think
Ever heard one of those manifestation gurus say: “Start small. A coffee, a parking space, a text from a friend. Build up to the big stuff.”
Cute, right? But also… completely backwards.
Because the Universe doesn’t give a flying fig whether you want a free latte or a million-dollar windfall. To Source, it’s all just vibration. The only one calling it “big” or “small” is you.
And that’s where we mess it up.
Big vs. Small: It’s All in Your Head
When you’re manifesting something “small,” you don’t care that much. A coffee? Great. No coffee? You’ll live. There’s no pressure. You’re light, playful, cheeky even.
That’s why it shows up so easily.
But when you’re manifesting something “big”—the house, the love, the freedom—you load it with meaning. You declare: “This is huge. This matters. This has to happen.” And bam: the weight crushes the energy.
Vadim Zeland (of Reality Transurfing fame) calls this excess potential. Abraham-Hicks would say you’ve just pinched yourself off from the flow. I call it the “pressure cooker of importance.” Whatever the language, the principle’s the same: importance kills lightness.
The paradox? The “big” stuff often comes faster once you drop the weight.
My $20 Taekwondo Test
Case in point: while sketching out a 21-day manifestation practice, I had a wild synchronicity—two days in a row.
I walked into my Taekwondo dojang before class, tidying up like the neat freak I secretly am, and there on the floor… a crisp $20 bill.
The first day I laughed and said out loud, “Thank you, Money” (yes, I literally talk to Money like it’s a lover). The second day, when another twenty appeared, I just shook my head with a grin and whispered thanks in my heart like, “Okay, Universe, now you’re showing off.”
I’ve never seen cash lying around that space, ever. Then suddenly, back-to-back twenties? It felt like the TKD gods tossing me a playful wink: “Keep it light. Keep it fun. We’ve got you.”
Lighten the Load
So here’s the real “big hack”:
Stop labelling things “big” or “small.”
Drop the pressure cooker of must-have.
Play. Smile. Whisper your desire like it’s already a done deal.
The moment you lighten the load, the energy moves.
Coming Soon: The 21-Day Hack
I’ll be sharing my own 21-day manifestation hack soon—a cheeky little spell based on the principle of reducto-importancia. (Yes, it sounds like Harry Potter. Yes, I coined it. And yes, it works better than most “serious” rituals I’ve tried.)
Spoiler: it’s playful, powerful, and repeatable.
💌 Your turn: What’s the smallest, biggest, or most fun thing you’ve ever manifested? A found coin? A free drink? Winnings? Your soulmate? Drop it in the comments—I’d love to share the joy of your stories.
